People come to our
lives for a reason. They depart for a reason too. I am talking to those who
loved freely and openly and then stood with nothing but betrayal. I have seen
too many people losing faith in humanity. I have seen people afraid to trust
again - all because one motherfucker or one slut has decided to breach their
trusts.
Well, I can
understand that you are afraid to trust again. Anyone would be. And it is
because of that reason only, you must sit back analyze situation. You must
consider why people betray the trust of others. Why throw something as precious
as faith and respect?
The simple reason
is because they are like that only. It’s in their blood and family background.
Upbringing always speaks for itself. And when you put libido before respect,
you are not displaying a nicer picture about the woman who carried you in her
womb and the man who brought you up. But, then again, do you even have the mind
to consider this fact. I believe not. You have your libido between your ears
after all.
Relationships die,
I agree. Love vanishes. I agree too. But, leading a dual life and fucking
someone else while still celebrating your significant other’s birthday? Well, should
you still be called a human brought up in a family which taught respect? I
guess not.
If you are confused
about the birthday bash thing, let me tell you, I know a man who went to his
fiancé’s birthday with his slut in his arms. The funniest fact is his fiancé
was unaware of the reality. She was happy to show her would-be husband the new
clothes she bought. What do you say to a man like that? What do you call him? Motherfucker?
Asshole? Or plain simply a man not worth bothering about. I happen to remember what
Ned Stark said about a similar man – Some men are not worth having.
But, should you be
losing faith due to a man or a woman like this? Should you be afraid of
trusting someone because some people don’t value what life has given them?
It is your decision
and up bringing to trust them. It is theirs to breach it. They will keep
betraying everyone who is unfortunate enough to cross their paths. And one day
they will betray themselves just for the heck of it. It’s not their fault. It’s
in their blood, tinted with corruption. Their saga will be eternal until the
day life decides to end it for them.
You have an
honorable father and a respectable mother - who taught you to be true in a
relationship and stand till the end. You did. You lost. But, you have gained
too. You have gained your freedom from an unworthy person who would have
damaged your life.
If someone cannot
have you as you are, the person should not have you in any other way. If
someone asks you to grow up, ask them back to grow real. It is you, immature,
rude, passionate and precious. It is the way your creator made you to be. Take
pride and move on. Be yourself and keep dreaming. And don’t dwell on the
betrayal. You know why?
Because, there will
come a day when the people who betrayed you will be happy and safe. They will
think that everything is perfect in their lives. And that is the day Karma will
pay them a visit and their happiness will turn into ashes. And your debt will
be paid.
Don’t believe me?
Well, just wait and watch it happen.
